Play Your Way to His Heart - How to Trigger The Hero Instinct
https://www.happywithyourman.com/obsession A spirit of playfulness keeps you connected. It breaks you out of the routine of the everyday. Playfulness takes you back to the early days of your relationship when all you did was have fun together. Even if you don’t have time for a game, you always have time for some banter or flirtation. Getting silly helps you see the boy inside your man. Dr. Brown thinks it’s unfortunate that the term “player” has come to mean someone who plays with hearts. Surely, we should all play more in our relationships. Not with emotions, but with each other. “Life without play is a grinding, mechanical existence organized around doing the things necessary for survival,” he writes in his book Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul. He adds, “I don’t think it is too much to say that play can save your life.” Maybe you’re thinking… “But that won’t work for me. Because I hate games. ALL games.” Well, you’re in luck. Because play comes in all shapes and sizes. Dancing is play. Making music is play. Pretending you’re a kid again can be play. So take some time to play. Figure out what you both enjoy doing, and let your him meet your playful side.